Do personal trainers actually work out? And what keeps them motivated to move?
I can tell you that many personal trainers DO NOT actually work out. This may come as a shock to some, but it’s speaks to a larger socio-cultural issue in regards to our views about movement.
Let’s take a look at an analogous perspective first. I had a professional chef once tell me that, after a long day of cooking gourmet food for the restaurant he worked at, he often comes home and throws on some macaroni and cheese and a polishes it off with a budweiser. You may think that a chef would make himself a nice duck l’orange or chicken cordon bleu with a wild mushroom risotto as a reward for a hard day of work, however, the truth is that most chefs are probably sick of making gourmet food all day long. Personal trainers aren’t exempt from this same phenomenon in relation to exercise.
Now, before you break out the rulers and start smacking wrists, let’s consider that personal trainers are people, too, and often fall off the bandwagon of healthy living just like the everyone else. Some trainers give up regular exercise altogether, but some find another way to keep themselves motivated to move. It is the latter group of trainers that can share a valuable philosophy for those seeking to make movement less of a drudgery and more of an enjoyable experience over the lifespan.
The antidote to the disease of sedentarianism seems to be solved by not working “out”, which is nomenclature that needs to be workshopped. To me, working OUT means going outside of oneself to elicit a change without subscribing to the internal wisdom, abilities, and possibilities of one’s internal selves. From my observations of those that are the healthiest and most fit are those that work IN, and they do so by working within their own abilities, doing the best they can that day. Another observation is that they tend to do less regimented workouts and focus more on play. Yes, just like a kid, the most fit people play. Play doesn’t just mean swinging on a swing set or playing hopscotch, although those are fair game, too.
PLAY-(n)-engage in activity for enjoyment and recreation rather than a serious or practical purpose (dictionary.com)
Personal trainers and fitness professionals that commit to moving long term usually start to exhibit higher and higher levels of play. Even if they claim to follow a strict program of exercises on a spreadsheet with weight percentages and heart rate zones meticulously mapped out, they still tinker and play within the program itself. I see this as a subtle sign of that person’s inner desire for play and creativity. True states of play, meaning those that are free from all expectations, is rare in adults because it is a scary state for adults to be in at first. Play has no direct purpose, mission or objective. And we all know that adults need a reason behind everything. Once someone can let go of purpose and working OUT all the time, they can enter their movement practice with an open mind, free of the stress of expectations. This allows for the key of possibility to open the door of FUN in movement.
In my own recent musings with movement, i treat each movement session (notice how i didn’t say “workout”?) as a way to explore the realm of possibility at that particular point in time. I’m always testing myself in new and unique ways with the realization that my health and fitness goals will take care of themselves when i am enjoying what i am doing first, free from stressful expectations and approaching this practice with exuberance for the belief that my body might be able to do things and teach me things that i never thought possible. Programming and limiting myself to strict sets and reps all the time blunts this realm of possibility.
Now before i get written off as some kind of hippie counter-culturalist proposing that everyone throw away their heart rate monitors and workout logs, let me just say that i am not against these things. If one has a particular competition (i.e.-road race, weightlifting, triathlon, etc.), then there is merit to monitoring progress and progressing in a steady fashion to avoid injury and overtraining. However, blindly following programs all the time does not teach anyone how to listen in to their bodies, it instead outsources those duties to a piece of paper. Even though this may be a safe route because it locks someone in to statistically safe parameters, it doesn’t allow the individual to explore in the realm of possibility. For example, what if athletes, for 3 months out of the year (during the offseason), chose what they wanted to do as long as it was some form of movement. They could be encouraged to try a bunch of new sports, activities, etc. This, along with mental relaxation from the rigors of competition, could make moving exciting again as they rediscovered new ways in which their bodies could move. It could also make their bodies smarter and more resilient by challenging it in new dimensions.
So, to try and sum up my entire rant, i believe a missing link in health is playing in the realm of possibility. Stick to your programs if it provides peace of mind, however, i encourage everyone to step outside for a while and cater to the curiosity of what their body’s may or may not be capable of. This could mean including an element into ones workout that is random, or perhaps even spending weeks or months away from structure. This is especially important for those in high stress jobs who spreadsheet and forecast their working life, only to attempt to do the same with their movement practice. Could play be the skeleton key that unlocks the stress of life?
I dare you to play…TAG YOU’RE IT!




